Eksposisi "One Day More - Les Misérables" - Part I

Dari seluruh rangkaian film-musik Les Miserables, babak lagu ‘One Day More’ ini adalah salah satu yang paling berkesan.

Satu hari lagi. Apakah artinya bagi manusia? Apakah yang esok akan bawa? Babak ‘one day more’ ini mengisahkan pergulatan tiap sosok anak manusia melihat hari esok. Kuatir. Gelisah. Harapan. Takut. Mimpi.

Inilah juga salah satu kekuatan keindahan novel karya Victor Hugo ini, rangkaian cerita yang beralur banyak. Kaya akan kisah hidup manusia dengan masing-masing pergumulan mereka.

VALJEAN

One day more! (Satu hari lagi)

Another day, another destiny.(Hari lain, nasib lain)

This never-ending road to Calvary; (Jalan tak berujung ke Kalvari)

These men who seem to know my crime (Orang-orang ini seperti mengetahui kesalahanku)

Will surely come a second time. (Tentu akan datang lagi)

One day more! (Satu hari lagi)

Satu hari lagi. Bagi Jean Valjean, esok adalah ketidakpastian, setelah sepanjang hidupnya dia ditindas, dikejar-kejar oleh ‘hukum’.

Jean Valjean dipenjara selama 19 tahun karena mencuri sepotong roti. Sekerat roti saja, yang dia curi untuk menyelamatkan nyawa keponakannya yang kelaparan. Setelah dia menyelesaikan masa 19 tahunnya, dia masih harus melapor setiap tahun sampai akhir hayatnya dan membawa stigma surat sebagai narapidana. Sebuah belenggu yang sama saja membunuhnya pelan-pelan.

Apa yang salah? Bukankah hukum memang seperti itu?

Mata ganti mata.. dan hati menjadi batu – demikian lirik lagu yang Valjean nyanyikan.

Valjean berubah karena bertemu dengan seorang bishop di sebuah kapel sederhana. Setelah diusir di mana-mana, sang bishop tua mengajaknya masuk, memberinya makan, dan memberinya tempat tidur. Dini hari, dia mencuri perangkat makan perak dan melarikan diri. Polisi menangkap dan menyeretnya ke hadapan sang bishop. Di luar dugaannya, sang bishop malah menegurnya, “Mengapa kamu pergi terburu-buru sampai kelupaan membawa tempat lilin dari perak ini? Bukankah sudah kukatakan bawa juga ini, sudah lama benda ini diam di sini tak berguna, tentunya lebih berguna di tanganmu.”

Bukankah berbohong itu dosa? Secara hukum agama maupun secara hukum negara, andaikan sang polisi tahu, tentu saja dia akan terjerat masalah.

Sang bishop memberkatinya dan berpesan agar perangkat perak ini dia gunakan untuk berbuat jujur dan bahwa dia telah mempersembahkan Valjean bagi Allah.

Selama hidup, tidak pernah saya bertemu dengan pendeta, pastor, rohaniwan Kristiani yang mau berbuat seperti itu. Maukah seorang pendeta yang mapan, menerima seorang buronan, memberinya makan dan tumpangan? Kemudian ketika keesokan harinya, dia menemukan orang yang ditolongnya tertangkap basah dengan barang berharga yang dicuri dari rumahnya, bukan hanya dia mengampuni, bahkan menambahkan dengan barang berharga terbaiknya dan memberkatinya? Akankah ada orang yang mau mengambil resiko dengan membohongi polisi, untuk seorang manusia yang tidak dikenalnya sama sekali?

Saya tidak pernah bertemu seumur hidup saya dengan rohaniwan seperti itu.

Saya sendiri tidak mampu berbuat seperti itu. Mudah-mudahan suatu saat saya bisa menemukan manusia seperti itu.

Inspektur Javert adalah kebalikan dari sang bishop. Dia percaya bahwa tugasnya untuk menegakkan hukum adalah tugas Illahi. Hukum adalah hukum. Orang yang bersalah pantas dihukum seberat-beratnya. Hukum harus ditegakkan di atas segalanya, dengan pengorbanan apa pun. Di matanya, orang seperti Valjean adalah sampah masyarakat yang tidak punya harapan. ‘Fallen from grace’ – seperti lirik lagunya mengungkapkan. Hukum tidak mengenal belas kasihan. Hukum di atas belas kasihan. Hukum bahkan tidak peduli esensi kebenaran, karena mereka berpikir dia di atas kebenaran.

Bukankah mudah kita lihat di sekeliling kita, orang-orang suci yang melaksanakan tugas, perang, misi Illahi, walaupun itu menindas belas kasihan. Dengan nama hukum atau nama Tuhan atau nama cita-cita atau ideologi atau sesuatu yang mulia, tetapi melupakan belas kasihan dan menyisakan kekejaman. Bukan hanya segerombolan orang, bahkan juga negara. Sebuah negara super power yang selalu mengkritik negara lain akan hak asasi manusia, misalnya – tetapi memiliki kamp penyiksaan yang keji, yang dibangun di luar wilayahnya (untuk mempelintir hukum).

Dalam kerohanian, hidup dalam hukum penuh dengan penghakiman, ketakutan, karena hukum tidak pernah puas. Alas, pendeta lebih senang menggunakan hukum di atas mimbar untuk menekan, menakuti jemaat karena mereka akan lebih mudah dikendalikan untuk kepentingan sang pendeta, atas nama hukum Tuhan.

Bishop Myriel adalah gambaran kasih karunia. Karena yang dikehendakinya adalah belas kasihan dan bukan hukum.

Valjean mendedikasikan hidupnya untuk membesarkan Cosette, putri Fantene, seorang bekas karyawannya yang berusaha dia tolong. Valjean tidak tertarik akan politik, belas kasihannya pada Fantene tulus dan tidak ada romans di antara mereka. Dia tidak memiliki ideologi yang besar dan ‘mulia’ seperti untuk mendirikan negara baru, yang dia lakukan hanyalah belas kasihan yang sederhana.

Dan hukum tidak pernah melepaskannya dan selalu mengejar-ngejar hidupnya.

Itulah saat babak “one day more” mulai. Esok bagi Valjean adalah sederhana. Esok adalah untuk tetap hidup. Hidup yang dijalaninya seperti yang dipesankan oleh sang Bishop, bahwa jiwanya telah dipersembahkan kepada Allah.

On the Cross Road

This is my fish tank that I just set up as a beginner. The theme as the title depicts is 'On the Cross Road'.

Imagine you were standing beneath the tall tree in front of the cross road. Two stony white roads before you. On the left, looks simple, wide and some big roots, waving from far. The other road is winding, with some tentacles-like roots, and welcome by some red lotus and beautiful leaves.

On your left is a submerged garden inviting you to rest. On the right, at the distance you see the mountain-like tall tress inviting you to conquer them.

For the record, the fishes I keep are flame dwarf gouramis, cardinal tetras, otto, shrimps, coolie loach, german blue ram, albino red fin shark, guppy, corydoras, lots of golden algae eaters, some ramshorn snails.

How to fix set language in Word 2007

It's amazing that how can an annoying product with such mistake in simple matters, still become the de facto standard in the word processing arena.

If you use MS Word for English only, then it's fine. But for many people, like me it is irritating if you are typing Bahasa Indonesia using MS Word. It would undermine your human rights, by capitalizing the word "Cuma", because our dear friend, thinks that Cuma is a name of a day, hence needs to be capitalized. And sometimes to my horror, it would auto correct the word "memberi" to "member".

So, put aside about human rights, I also find the way to fix this problem is horrible. Everytime I set the language to Indonesian, it would just automatically set back to English.

Ok, maybe you said, just change the MS Office Tools Language setting to be Indonesian and remove the English at all. Oh yes, but we are bilingual, and we use both languages quite often, I cannot everytime I want to create a document I go to the control panel!

Here is the solution:
1. Create a brand new template: New -> My templates -> Create New
2. Rename that template as Normal_indo.dotm
3. Change the default set language as "Indonesian" and please uncheck the "Detect Language automatically" and check do not check spelling/grammar. Anyway I don't need Bill to check my Indonesian spelling.
4. Save it

The wonderful Microsoft Word, strange enough, at the bottom bar, would still change to English everytime I press Enter. At least I am not annoyed by the auto correct.

The hassle is we have to open the template, if we want to create a non English document.

Lesson from SMRT

People always undermine operation, maintenance and service delivery. It's always more glamorous to flash the P&L, stock price, new deals, party, celebrities, publicity, golf, etc. Operation is taken for granted. The problem is that operation is the foundation. It's what you sell to customers. In the context of SMRT since it serves the public's interest more than share holders, it's even more important. SMRT took operation for granted. The money they used to invest in the retail space, hired dolly dim sum, etc would be more useful if they channel it to operation. Once it blows up, it will cost the high flyers' job.

Brain and Emotion

"I think kamu terlalu mengandalkan brain, and if it does not work, your emotion cant manage it..."



Sepenggal kalimat di atas diucapkan seorang sahabat lewat fb message. Seorang sahabat yang unik, yang saya kenal sejak 20 tahun yang lalu. Baru saja bersua, dan tiba2 saya teringat persamaan dan perbedaan di antara kita. Kita sama2 suka berbalas pantun. Bedanya dia 'cool'. Coolness-nya itu yang membuat dia bisa menarik hati seseorang, demikian.


Menarik nasehat yang dia berikan. Kalau saya terlalu mengandalkan otak, dan sesuatu tidak terjadi seperti yang otak saya harapkan, maka emosi saya tidak dapat mengendalikannya. 


Mengendalikan apa?


Biasanya, orang selalu diminta untuk mengendalikan emosi mereka. Emosi adalah sesuatu yang harus ditekan, dipendam, dikalahkan. Emosi seperti musuh yang harus ditaklukkan.


Menarik sekali, kalau ternyata dia memberikan perspektif yang berbeda. Emosi itu bukan lawan, bukan musuh. Emosi adalah diri kita sendiri. Gantinya berusaha menekan emosi, dan memperlakukannya seperti 'bagian lain' dan musuh - kita seharusnya melihat emosi adalah kekuatan diri kita sendiri.


Kalau otak kita tidak melihat hasil yang diharapkan, kalau suasana dan kejadian tidak seperti yang diharapkan, maka bukan emosi yang harus ditekan - tetapi emosi kitalah yang dapat melihat semua hal dari perspektif yang utuh. Dengan demikian emosi kita dapat mengendalikan suasana, walaupun otak kita melihat hal-hal yang tidak kita harapkan...

The Kingdom of God and Flying Without Wings

Setelah sekian lama menggumuli Matius 6:33, tiba-tiba saya menemukan suatu arti baru dari ayat hebat itu. Carilah dahulu Kerajaan Allah dan Kebenaran-Nya maka semuanya itu akan ditambahkan kepadamu.

Beberapa penafsiran yang populer dan umum misalnya:
1. Yang basic, pokoknya cukup bilang secara high level, bahwa kalau kita beribadah dengan taat, hidup baik2 di hadapan Tuhan, maka Tuhan akan memelihara kita. Tidak ada yang salah dengan ini, cuma untuk orang-orang melan seperti saya, saya tidak pernah yakin dan selalu dihantui keraguan 'apakah saya cukup baik? bagaimana dengan dosa kecil, besar yang disembunyikan di bawah pohon? Apakah server yang down kemarin itu gara2 Tuhan bete dengan saya?

2. Yang lebih prosperity, kira2 begini: Saudara2, berilah untuk Tuhan, perlebar kerajaan Allah, malam hari ini, saat Engkau membuka dompetmu, menulis cek-mu, saat ini juga, aku katakan, tingkap-tingkap langit terbuka, dan kepadamu akan ditambahkan. Ditambahkan, ditambahkan sampai meluap-luap....apa itu yang meluap? emas, perak, saham, bank account, BMW, dll...Tidak ada yang salah juga dengan ini, emang mana bisa saya bilang si ini atau si itu salah :)

Nah, cuma belakangan waktu kebetulan dengar lagu-nya Flying Without Wings dari Westlife, yang jelas2 lagu sekular...teks-nya begini:

[Shane:]
Everybody's looking for that something
One thing that makes it all complete
You'll find it in the strangest places
Places you never knew it could be
Some find it in the face of their children
Some find it in their lover's eyes
Who can deny the joy it brings
When you've found that special thing
You're flying without wings
[Mark:]
Some find it sharing every morning
Some in their solitary lives
You'll find it in the words of others
A simple line can make you laugh or cry

You'll find it in the deepest friendship
The kind you cherish all your life
And when you know how much that means
You've found that special thing
You're flying without wings

So, impossible as they may seem
You've got to fight for every dream
Cos who's to know which one you let go
Would have made you complete
[Shane:]
Well, for me it's waking up beside you
To watch the sunrise on your face
To know that I can say I love you
In any given time or place
[Mark:]
It's little things that only I know
Those are the things that make you mine
And it's like flying without wings
Cos you're my special thing
I'm flying without wings
[Shane:]
And you're the place my life begins
And you'll be where it ends
[Mark:]
I'm flying without wings
And that's the joy you bring
I'm flying without wings

Hmm.... sepotong lagu dunia untuk menafsirkan ayat suci? Penulis lagu ini cuma bilang kalau lagu ini tentang 'apa yang membuat kita 'complete' '

Tiba-tiba saya melihat perspektif Matius 6:33 dalam cahaya yang lain. Bisakah saya menyanyikan tiap pagi, bahwa yang terutama dalam hidup saya, adalah saat melihat wajah Sang Pencipta Mentari bersinar pada saya setiap pagi, dan bahwa setiap saat saya bisa membisikkan 'Saya mencintai-Mu' dalam degup sukacita yang bergolak?

Bisakah? Itulah yang terutama dan membuat hidup kita utuh, komplit, complete, cukup, penuh, tak kekurangan, sempurna - yaitu kalau kita menyatu dalam Kerajaan Allah itu. Pada saat itu, semua yang lain, they do not matter anymore. Dan itulah artinya kata "ditambahkan" - artinya, yang lain-lain itu bukan lagi yang utama, bukan yang membuat engkau complete, bukan yang membuat engkau bahagia seutuhnya, bukan yang membuat engkau penuh sepenuhnya. Allah tetap akan menyediakan semua itu, makanan, pakaian, rumah - seperti Dia memelihara triliun-an burung- burung yang berkeriapan, seperti Dia mendandani bunga-bunga bakung, dan juga koral-koral di dasar laut serta bunga edelweiss di puncak gunung - dan semua itu cuma tambahan.

Karena kalau kita bisa melihat Mentari itu bersinar tiap pagi menerpa wajah kita, dan kita tenggelam dalam Kerajaan Allah, itu saja yang membuat hidup kita utuh.

Flying Without Wings

I fell asleep and woke up with this Westlife's song.

I am glad I was reminded that we cannot have everything in life. Life is about many choices and what we decides.

Everybody's looking for a something
One thing that makes it all complete
You'll find it in the strangest places
Places you never knew it could be.

Well, for me it's waking up beside you
To watch the sunrise on your face
To know that I can say I love you
At any given time or place

Life works in a way of balance. If you choose to eat the cake you cannot have it anymore. If you choose to use your time to read newspaper, you will take the time you can use with your spouse. If you reject a friend's request or give in, there is something you either give or take away in the friendship.

If you are worried and restless in life, there are some energy and time you spend instead of enjoying it with your beloved.

The joy to watch the sunrise on God's face, my wife's face is something I want to choose and would make fly without wings.

With that, suddenly I remember something, I email my friend, coz I know what I want to choose and let go to have my life fly without wings.

Connecting the Dots

It is about Steve Jobs. Well he was not a philanthropist, neither ever does he give me a free coffee. I don't know him personally. He did not live next door or in my block.

So, why is this unknown person leaving the world with so muchb respect, including from me?

It is his spirit and legacy. What he did, inspire the world. Proving that we can do it. If we were born poor and needed to collect on 5 cent per Coca Cola can, look at him, he could make it. If we had to drop out of college coz no money, look at him. Follow your heart and do what you love to do.

He is a symbol of courage and freedom.

Something the average people have lost. We would not want to pursue what we love and feel free to do? Why? Coz we got another 20 years of this bloody housing loan. And the education fund for the kids.

So we will keep slogging with anxiety, worry, and restlessness, till we are old and have no energy to chase our dream - in order to ensure we have bread on the table, and a bit of money to buy iPhone :)

Steve, your legacy of courage, freedom spirit, and perseverance - may it still remains.

Something good comes out

Like many of us, I am not perfect. Sometimes we did not achieve what we want. So recently I met up with my ex-client, happened to bumped to him on the escalator.

Very nice person, very godly and wonderful.

And as we chat a little of guilt still creep in inside me.

Then suddenly another lady came approaching us, smiled and shook my hand. "XXXX, right?" she said, to my amazement that she knew my name, while I was trying hard to guess hers.

My ex-client quipped, " We got married because of that CRM project..."

I was stunned really stunned. Speechless.

"At least something good came out of it, right" he smiled.

Yes, I think God is amazing. He can make, create something good out of some circumstances that we deem is not good.

Looking at the context, bigger picture

These days, since I joined a new company for almost a year, I have been learning new things. Not too much in knowledge and hard skills, in fact due to most of the time spent in fire fighting I almost learn none.

But I learn a lot about Emotional Intelligence. I am now still reading Daniel Goleman's book. Also just read a very short book about NLP, and I quite like some of the concepts. For example, putting things in context and defining a state. Last time I used to easily annoyed of office politics, some petty people sent stupid emails, worse cc to everyone, to the bosses. Normally I could feel tired for weeks for those episodes. If not, I would try to stage a revenge.

I now try to look at the context and bigger picture. A sarcastic, knife-sharp cutting emails from colleagues, means absolutely nothing in the ocean of life. The big picture of life's journey, where my wife, kids, parents, and God is in the pictire, looks much bigger and overshadow that kind of incident. The context is that ' as you grow old, you'll realise you could not be too petty over small matters'. The earth grave is not too far away, and we may lose the big picture of God's plan, His thought, His dream about our life, should we are too engrossed in small matters.

If we look at the big picture, things that inject angst in our lifes, like 'fear of losing job', fear of poverty, fear of humiliation - it really does not matter. Life is short, and once you cross over 35, you are more likely to be reminded of the short term rental we have on earth. It is now, that I can understand more, why it was wrong for the Israelites to cry over meats, waters, and other convenience stuffs, when they were marching to the Promised Land, the Holy City of God.

Regret from the Past

I was recently linked again (thanks to Facebook, no matter I tried to undermine FB, some reality knocks) with my ex-kos mate. I had many wonderful memories with him, like we went into baptism together, we used to had the berbalas pantun session at night, and other stuffs, including we always tried to offend and demean each other.

A few hours call in the skype and left me with a empty feeling after that. One of our school mate, decided to abandon his first degree to go to medical school. I remembered him, both of us used to mourn our regret too. But now it's different, he made it up and I am stuck with regret for all my life.

I am not sure if now it still makes sense for me to start all over again with my age. I should have got the guts many years ago.

I used to think my settlement in Singapore was a blessing, maybe not. Maybe it's a liability now. For had I not come here, I would have the possibility to folllow W's path.

I don't know.....

Your Best Life Now

I am reading the book Your Best Life Now, by Joel Oesteen. It is a good book and I recommend it for you to read it.

I once met one of my good friend -whom I always admire of his sharp mind and spirituality - at Coffee Bean Orchard. I brought the book so I could read it along the one hour trip from my home. I would have guessed that he would welcome the book too, on the assumption he stays with a modern charismatic church, where I am now with a traditional conservative laid back church.

I think my belief has been swinging extremely right-left-up-down like roller coaster (of course within boundaries). From a pagan, grew up in mixed belief that Jesus co-exists with deity of other religions, then was born again and shot into radical Christian. Then the ride has been bumpy so far, all kind of theology, or even almost lost my faith ( I mean purpose - not belief)...

I commended the book, however, as I was struggling in my new job. For the first few months I had to recite some of the books' quote of Oesteen, to give me confidence and bravery in my daily work and not to feel down and inferior.

But, my friend's comment did strike me a bit. What is this book for - or whom? What does it mean by "best life"?

I remembered, for example, the other prosperity church that I attend sometimes, teaches that the meaning of God's discipline cannot be poverty, diseases or the lost of beloved. That means we are meant to be healthy, rich, and die in old age - always. God would discpline us in ways, i.e. giving us a troublesome boss, putting us behind a slow car to train our patient, etc. The only catch of this, is that he would have problem of explaining the book of Job, on which his rival whose service is at Expo now has been going deep into this book.

I am contemplating on this and I think the key issue is the defintion of 'best life'?

What does it mean? What is the definition? And who defines it? What does the Bible say? The problem of the Bible - those of you ever sit in Bible School know what I mean - you can interpret almost anything out of your Bible.

We have no doubt - absolutely not - that God wants the best in our life. God wants us to live a good life. (Ok, to be honest, my mentor, an SMU Professor told me: 'No, it is not God's purpose for you to have good life, but to glorify Him' Ok, I didn't buy it. I think it should be both).

Does God really mean that the best life is abundant of money? Perpetual perfect health? Sanity of tragedy? What is the definioin of best life?

I still don't have an answer. But I remembered when I was 14 years old, when I was just born again, neither did I have an answer to this, yet I was overwhelmed with a feeling, belief, emotion, thought that God will take care of everything and I could just rest in peace (not RIP, please). The belief, I could not formulate it into some wordy definition, but I just believed.

I still recommend the book.

One Dawn at Orchard

It was dawn (my definition is just 8 plus) at Orchard, cold after rain morning. What was I doing in Orchard at that hours? It's been a long time I had not been walking around on Orchard in the morning, since I left Bethany.

It started with a couple of SMS-es in one boring Satuday, sent to some friends I had not a chance to meet for some time. One guy picked it up, althought the initial reply was 'Who is this?'.

Okay, it's okay. So since that friend would be around at Orchard in the afternoon after his church related activities, then I met him at Orchard and we spent a very wonderful time of hours chatting from social-faith-hacking. I had called another friend to book his time to meet -yep in Orchard- and planned to watch movie, after the session with him.

Alas, I could not find the movie with the right time, so we had to wait untilk 9 pm. We then had the Indonesian food dinner, I haven't had for some time, at Lucky Plaza. Then I suddenly I remembered, why not pay a visit to my friend who was hospitalised in the nearby hospital.

My friend was supposed to undergo a quick operation, and by now the original plan for him was to go back to work already. Hailed over from Indonesia, hoping for better treatement in Singapore, the doctor accidentally cut his nerves causing him to be immobile. Adding to it, the hospital put him in the wrong ward, and he was infected by his next ward-mate suffering from lung infection. The wardmate died not long after that.

So, now he was immobilized, got lung infection and the nurse was careless that the drug drips, was leaking, adding to the fact that his medication was delayed then. The expensive private hospital added the onus by not having enough paramedics working on the long weekend, so he had to stay longer.

Ok, so I visited him. He was companied by his wife and mother. His wife then asked if I could company his mother at night, which mean I slept at the house she stayed. Ok, I thought, afteralL I was already in Orchard.

Then I left for Mark Zuckerberg's Social Network. Awesome movie, inspiring but mixed feeling. I still don't understand why Facebook can make it. Nothing fancy in technology, and they were not the first mover. Friendster and myspace was already there.

Finished movie, it was late, I ran under the grizzling rain to the house nearby hospital. The house belong to -at one point of time was one of the richest man in Indonesia -. well the family is still rich now, and his name will always be respected.

Could not sleep well. Or should I put it I almost did not sleep. So I woke up in the morning, sending my friend's mother to hospital, walking like zombie to the MRT.

And that explains why I walked in the dawn on Orchard.

Megamind

I like the movie. Another good one to remember.

The world is a stage of judgment and it has no mercy. Megamind is a story to explain why some people behave the way that was badly perceived by others. And the ordinary Mr Nice Guy that is not a publich enemy, not necessarily is a good guy, it's just that he doesn't have a chance, i.e Titan.

I remember long long time ago, when I was young, naive and zealous and tried to shared my faith to a foreigner in a broken English. He told me, that the reason I have my belief is becaue the environment I grew up with. I disagreed, as I grew older I understand what he meant. In the movie, it started about the comment about destiny.

Everybody deserves a second chance, and third, and fourth and so on. Everybody has their past that 'made' them to be like the way they are.

But one day, we'll find our own calling. That's was the advise of Metroman. He has been doing all the good things, but of all the good deeds he has done, is portraited in different perception in the movie. Only that one piece of advise he gave to Megamind, perhaps is the real good deed worth to remember in the movie.

I like the movie. Another one worth to remember.

Everyone will find their calling, everyone deservers the second chance.

The Family Man

One of my most favourite movie is 'The Family Man', starred by Nicolas Cage and Tea Leony. Surprisingly, it was not very successful, it was not even in the mind of many people when it was launched.

For many of the working class people, Wall Street is a dream. A beautiful dream. Penthouse in the centre of Manhattan, you can have all what you want - as Jack Campbell said it 'I've got everything I need'.

I like the appearance of the mysterious angel - and the film purposely left him as just unclear and to our own interpretation. I like the idea of the board and the upper esselon, and his face when he said to the failed store owner 'you blew it...'. And also when finally he reminded Jack of the glimpse.

The movie takes the approach like Victor Frankl's - a psychiatrist who survived the NAZI camp and author of 'In Seach of Meaning'. It asks the question, "What if....?" So the writer asked Jack Campbell: What if you were married? What if you lose all your Wall Street status? What if you could not afford a $2,400 suit? What if you gotta work as a tyre salesman, in contrast the high-flyer of Wall St? What if you gotta save cents by cents, clipping coupons, waiting for another 122 payment to own your house - just like many working class Americans?

But you got your family. You have 2 kids. You have a lovely wife instead of the different women you have every month.

The other way around approach is often used by pshyciatrist also, i.e for a stress mother who cannot take the noise, messy house caused by kids. Ask her a question, imagine that the house is quiet and clean. It is as perfect as you imagine. But you don't have the kids.

Often people start realizing that whatever they have is greater than whatever they don't have.

It is certainly one of the best movie I keep in my heart. The acting of Cage and Leony is excellent. Certain plots perhaps I would tweak were I the writer, but overall is genius! The idea of glimpse, the mysterious angel, and the presentation of Wall St - I like it. The snowy background is wonderful too.

It's just that after watching the movie, I still feel that how nice it is to fly around in Wall St :)

Farewell

I never thought that I would have had to send this "kind of" email. Sigh.
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Dear Colleagues,

Tomorrow is my last day in XXXX and I want to say thank you for all your support and kindness you have rendered to me for the last (almost) 6 years. As I close this chapter, it reminds me of the epigraph to the Romance of The Three Kingdoms about the Three Gorges in Yang Tze River. Allow me to quote a piece of poem from Yang Shen, translated by Lee Wei Ling:

Wave on wave the long River rolls away;
Gone are all heroes with its spray on spray
Success or failure, right or wrong, all turn out vain
Only green mountains still remain,
To see the setting suns’s departure.
The white-haired fisherman sail on the stream with ease,
Accustomed to the autumn moon and vernal breeze.
A pot of wine in hand, they talk as they please.
How many things before and after, all melt into gossip and laughter.

Ik wil iedereen op deze manier erg hartelijk danken voor de goede samenwerking in de afgelopen periode, uiteraard wens ik iedereen veel succes binnen XXXX. De God zegent u.

Selamat Tinggal,

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So? Foes or allies, all are gone in the spray of River. Gold or sabre, all sink into the River. What do we have but a piece of happiness with a pot of wine when we travel through the Lake and River.

My son's first prayer

Son: Susu...susu ..susu...

Parent: You just had yours....

Son: "Lord Ci-ces...thank ku...for today...be-less....papa and mama and Cemy....amen..ho-lu-yaaa."

*silent for a while, then he continued*

Son: "Tuhan adalah gembalaku....takkan ko-ko-na-ngan...aku...."

*then..he shouted*

"Minta susu!"

For which the parents were gladly preparing the milk for him :)

Love and better husband

One of my close friend, once responded to my question of what is his vision in life with 'to be a better husband'..

oh how true is his word....he is indeed very wise....one of the wisest among my friends...

love grows in marriage, much different than the way it did during the teenagers' courtship. It takes sacrifice, it filters out bullshit but it brings hard work. It makes you eliminate your angers in daily life, it makes you stop certain hobbies, it makes you spend less time for yourself, those are sounds mundande, but that is part of love too.

I see Jesus as an example. His love was not 'wishy washy'. It was simple, direct, clear then He died on the cross. It was not out of 'storming' emotion, misleading feeling, etc., it was simply out of love, then He died for you and me.

Isn' t that love all about?

So to be a better husband, is to mature our love to our wife.

Benny Hinn and the Divine Marriage

Suzanne Hinn filed the papers in Orange County Superior Court on Feb. 1, citing irreconcilable differences, after more than 30 years of marriage. The papers note the two separated on Jan. 26 and that Hinn has been living in Dana Point, a wealthy coastal community in southern Orange County.

I am in no way judging Hinn at all. I don't have the right neither intention to do so. The story of Hinn, is like, he is 'the chosen one' in Harry Potter, or 'the prophecised ones' like the 4 kids in Narnia, he is like Frodo of Lord of the Rings, he is like the King Arthur with the Excalibur.

I am sure, just like many of us, you were shocked of the news. I remember when I was a very young youth, filled with zeal and fire, his book was my favorite, 'Good Morning Holy Spirit'. And one of my most favorite section is the story about how he got married with Suzanne. It was a divine appointment. And still very fresh in my memory, that story to me was an amazing true story-fairy tale. It was more beautiful than any romance fairy tale story I ever know. Hinn met with a senior pastor, and the pastor had a very beautiful young daughter. They met. God told him that she is "the one". And Hinn asked God, if she is the one, please made her tell him, that she would make a cake for him. And God gave him 'the SIGN'. And they lived happily ever after. It was a perfect story. Really.

Oh..for a young teenager melancholy boy, that piece of story is more than everything. I carried it to my university days, all the way till I grew up. Most of very renown pastors in Indonesia would cite this miraculous story too. I dreamed of this too. That one day good Lord will give me the sign, in a beautiful setting and background just like Hinn's.

I don't care when Ted Haggard had sex with a male prostitute and used drugs. I don't bother that Paul Cain drunk in real alcohol and he was really drunk. Not my concernt that Paula and Randy White got divorced. Just laughed when I heard at the big Bethel Sinode Assembly Meeting, the pastors were exchanging pyhsical fists and abusive words for the fight of the Chairman position. Or when many-many mega church pastors messed up church finances.

But Hinn's story with Suzanne is a true fairy tale I used to keep preciously. It was like a dream. God matchmade you and the princess, you are the chosen one, you are so special. I knew then, I would never get Hinn's status, the way he befriended with God and the way God made special ararangement for him for his soul mate. But that story kept inspiring me, it's like the piece of treasure you'd remember with smile.

All I see now it's like the movie 'UP'. The man found out that all his childhood dreams, his super-idol-role model, his dream hanging waterfall....all are vanity and meaningless.... Or perhaps like a boy who used to adore the Santa Claus, felt so happy when he saw his mom kissing Santa Claus, kept singing that 'I saw mommy kissing Santa Claus'...until he grew up to realise that his mom had an affair with that "bloody santa claus".

God did not give me the sign then. I mean, the sign as I wanted it to be. There may be many signs, but not as I wanted. Or if there were any, I did not accept it, I rejected it. I did not have the beautiful fairy tale background and setting like Hinn had. But, all I know that I love my wife. And I know that love is difficult and not an easy word and should not be taken for granted like a sign of star in the sky.

All I know that love is a verb and choice. I choose to love my wife not because of the sign of stardusts in the sky, or the flowers and butterflies formed a heart-shape dance..... I choose to love my wife, regardless of the setting and background.

All I ask from God is not the sign and the beautiful setting. May His love stays in my heart and enables me to keep loving my wife till the end.....

Wise Words from Elder

Trading appears deceptively easy. When a beginner wins, he feels brilliant and invincible. Then he takes wild risks and loses everything.

Money symbolizes freedom to many people, even though they often do not know what to do with their freedom

Many traders are loners who abandon the certainty of the present and take a leap into the unknown

The unstructured environment of the market makes it is easy to develop fantasies. A successful trader must identify his fantasies and get rid of them.

If their systems worked, why would they sell them?

The market is not your mother. It consists of tough men and women who look for ways to take money away from you instead of pouring milk into your mouth.

When I was growing up in the former Soviet Union, children were taught that Stalin was our great leader. Later we found out what a monster he had been, but while he was alive, most people enjoyed following the leader. He freed them from the need to think for themselves.

Emotional reactions are a luxury that you cannot afford in the markets.

People change when they join crowds. They become more credulous and impulsive, anxiously search for a leader, and react to emotions instead of using their intellect. An individual who becomes involved in a group becomes less capable of thinking for himself.

Markets do not care about your well-being. Successful traders are independent thinkers.

Our society glorifies freedom and free will, but we carry many primitive impulses beneath the thin veneer of civilization. We want to join groups for safety and be led by strong leaders. The greater the uncertainty, the stronger our wish to join and to follow.

Your human nature prepares you to give up your independence under stress

Vertical Limit, Up

Some of the movies that left some 'touch' in my heart are the above mentioned.

I watched Vertical Limit, when I was in my "presumably" lowest point. I said 'presumably' because that's what I felt at that time, and not necessarily right... I was distressed because I made a wrong decision of leaving my comfortable job and pay in a modern country and went back to start a business in my homeland. Lots of personal struggle too. Full of dilemma too because I felt that I was neither here nor there and I did not know what to do, felt nothing but fear. I was so fearful until I was paralyzed. Of course, again, it was just what I felt at that time.

Then I watched Vertical Limit, a story about 2 siblings, a man and woman, of a journey finding their adventure after the accidents when their father passed away. As a mountain climber, their father has sacrificed his life, to save the life of his children, by forcing his son to cut the robe, so that only the father would fell...and died.

The daughter grew up bitter and went all out for this extreme mount climbing, whilst the son grew up bitter and forsook that sport adventure. They were reunited in one event, and in that season, every human being showed their true color. The rich businessman who sponsor the event, if possible would kill everyone, to save himself. Some are willing to help for money. The brother went up in bid to save his sister.

One semi-insane weirdo appeared in the scene. And he repeated the scene of the sibling's father. He cut the robe himself, so again the scene was repeated, the two siblings was saved because of his sacrifice.

When I watched that I could really feel the thrill of life and death and all these were just defined in moments of seconds or minutes. Whatever problem and burden we have, after all will hit the ceiling of 'stop order' called death. And here it is, I watched people, playing with death. I mean I know it's just a movie, and most of movies just portrays the same game of fake death. I know, I know. But I felt that genuine things in that movie - and that weirdo is willing to give his life to save the life of the two youngsters.

I was reminded then, no matter how tough and humiliating my situation is, it is not near the situation at that snowy mountains.

...I will write about Up later...

What kind of church (2)

9. Serving

Church activities are always the center of the church's understanding of serving God, of doing good works, etc. So much so, that it is more important than mercy outside the wall of the churches. Remember the story of the good Samaritans? All the church workers that passed by the poor fellow, got more important things to do, which is their church ministry schedule, than helping that poor beaten up fellow. Some more it would involve some sacrifice of time and money, whereas if they went straight to the church, they would receive honor, respect and money...they will be hailed just like God's angel, bringing the message on God's behalf...but helping that unknown infamous stranger on the street....? Who would appreciate me? If that robbed fellow is Donald Trump...maybe...hmm...

I would teach that serving can be anywhere, not only within the church walls. I dream that my members won't judge the spirituality of others just because they are not active in the church. They may have an elderly person to take care, instead of the time to be involved in church activities. And oh, by the way, I hope members are not racing to serve in the "public display" ministry, becoming singers, worship leaders, musicians for the sake of adrenalin of being admired and adored by people. You think, this is American Church Idol??

I remember once, one of my close friend, who was criticized, rebuked, etc. because he failed to turn up on one of music practice session. Nobody asked and knew that on that moment his wife was bleeding. Hello..???

I know love has become a too cheap word now, but still I dream that there's real love among the members and out to the people.....

10. What kind of building do you want for your church?

This is the hot topic. The church building is often the symbol of the prosperity of that church and the Senior Pastor of that church.

I would say just be pragmatic and realistic. The building is just a place that we use for gathering. Anything that can be used for people to sit down for some hours comfortably will do. I understand the measure of "comfortable" can be relative. Yes, in Singapore city and in Tasikmalaya, a small town in Indonesia, might be different. After all the humidity level is also different. Church building is NOT the place where God dwells, it is just a place for us to sit down together. We are the House of God. Please, Paul has already made it clear to the Athens long long time ago. Don't sell God's name for our comfort, please.

But, please...I remember one pastor was trying to raise fund for buying new church building and kept on mentioning on how God is longing to have a house, as if he was some homeless guy on the street. As we were using hotel's boardroom to worship, he also emphasize that this is displeasing God, as the hotel might be contaminated with some drunk party atmosphere.

I would think just being pragmatic and practical. If my church in some villages, maybe can just use home churches, if in the city follow what is available in that city. Building just built for function. Of course, if there are some members who are artists and want to design the church artistically, as their form of service to God, you're welcome.

What kind of church..

I recently accidentally asked my friend in email, what kind of church - if he has a choice - he wants to build? A church filled with prosperity and miracles teaching, nice building, etc that easily grab 10,000 members - or a church just a few thousands, solid teaching, plus you got a brain cancer...?

By strange "coincidence" I now have families (and friends) of many pastors, from struggling-handful- members church to megachurch. Well, of course, I fully realized even if I start a church, that will surely join the crowd of imperfect -very imperfect - churches.

But, still my minds wondering and wandering....and if I can use my imagination, day dream, if you will....

1. The church will teach strongly on grace, grace and grace. Just like my lecturer in SBC once said, Grace is scandalous. Grace is unfair. I would think our lifetime and the whole mankind history cannot unravel the mystery of grace. That would lead to the implication of there's no double predestination, there's no chosen man or woman to be punished. At the same time, we still shall believe in the paradox, that we are all chosen by grace, and predestined before the world was even formed. Nothing we could do to afford his grace, and nothing we have done could make grace closes the door. And this will reject the teaching of 'we could lose our salvation' plus we have to keep the ticket to heaven by good works..

2. How about money and prosperity? How about Financial Freedom? How about success? Must we or must not we become rich, successful, influential, public figure, etc?

I would teach the church, that God cares for us so much. God loves us so much. I don't want to define what is "care" to each of individual, for everyone has special and unique and existential relationship with God, and so does God has unique, special, detail plan and thought for each of us. Only God knows. I will teach, that bring your cares to God, God may do miracles about your dollars. But not only that, about all personal struggles too, kids, spouses, families, earthquakes, etc.

For a businessman who has not been sleeping well over a one billion business trouble, God may open the door and pass him some billions of dollars. For a 'cabai' sellers on the street, God bless him with a few dollars for the day. Of course, he may do something 'fun' too by turning around a cabai seller to become a bank owner, that is his prerogative right.

But, Jesus is not about money!

The point is, success is defined as how much we are resembled to Christ. Our spirituality cannot be measured whether we are rich, successful in wordly terms, become a public figure, etc. If we are given that portion, then it would become our responsibilities to distribute it to those who are less well. If we are rich in money and we want to take the measure of Christ, dare we to follow His path, the path of giving and sacrifice?

I would also teach that the real financial freedom is found after Peter's example. He got the miracle of fishes, his net was full with fishes, but then he forsook all to follow Jesus. I think, Peter has really achieved the true financial freedom. He is a free man, man!

So, the focus is never on material achievement but on spiritual. I would not be interested in theological discussion of 'Was Jesus rich or poor when he was on the earth?'

3. I want the church to be inclusive. I imagine, that my church members would welcome a prostitute, poor widow, as much as they welcome a rich, religious and influential public figure. I dream that my members would not ever judge anyone, whether someone wears a short skirt, color the hairs, use tattoo, or if someone has backslided, etc.

I remember in a church leader meeting, we discussed about disciplining some members. And we were using the section on which Jesus taught us, to treat the "fallen brother/sister" as tax collectors. So the pastor and other leaders discussed the need to ex-communicate the persons. I was so naive, to raise my hand, and ask how come in my Bible I read it, that the way Jesus treated the tax collectors is, that Jesus ate and fellowship with them and not driving them away.

They looked at me as if I was insane. By the way, the member we were talking about discipline did not do some sort of murder or adultery, it just that she was busy doing other ministry outside the church and that she may have missed out some church meeting....

4. Cultural Mandate

I don't wish our member to judge. Culture is relative and a lot of bible text are contextual to the culture of that age. Yes, I would believe that we are not from the world, and there will some form of world culture that is not good, yet still we cannot judge the people.

It's good to use the latest music trend in youth service, if they like it. And we can have the 'soft&slow' music for the elderlies. You want rock music, rap, blues, jazz? Bring it on, man..for Christ all the glory!! But I don't want we go to the extreme side, that we are purposely making everything like the world, for the sake of filling in the seats and offering bags.

I remember once, when my youth was about to perform in the main service, he wanted to wear the 'trendy glasses and writs bands', and one of the pastor rebuked him. I was just speechless.

Yes, there are many things permissible but if that stumble others, let's not do it. It's just that it will take God's wisdom every minute to guide us what is best for us on that time.

5. Miracle and Healing

I will fully teach all these miracle teaching and ask for the fullest power of God to be released to the members and people. Yet I will not shy away of the difficult things to explain about, why are there people not healed, why are there sufferings and pains. I would still use CS Lewis teaching about pain and Angus' experience in "Faith Like Potatoes" and admit that we don't have all the answers. After all, it is not our task to 'answer' but just to display the glory of God. See also http://bit.ly/b3JoG4

6. Satan and Deliverance

I would free my members from the teaching about generational curse. I will strongly teach the members, that once we are freed by the Son, we are totally free. No curse, no demon possession. If Satan is still at work in some members, that's only the power of deceit. If that person knows that he is actually has already been fully paid, and he has all the authority to kick out the Satan, he shall be free!!!!! Oh, Hallelujah!! Do I believe in the deliverance ministry? Yes, but on the basis, that the Blood of Jesus has cleansed us once and for all!!!

7. Speaking in Tongue

Yes, that's the gift of God. But I will teach them that speak in tongue is just a beginning in speak in Spirit's language. When we are united with the Triune God, the Spirit is so dear and close to us, that makes our life just like His language. Our body movement, our tongue movement becomes the language and the fruit of the Spirit. When you think, the Spirit's mind fills your mind, that's to me is Speaking in Spirit's Language.

8. Tithing and Offering

I will reject the teaching that likes to sell God, like the Chinese Kitchen God. You think, we can bribe him? Tithing and Offering, refers to above points about Money, comes from our resemblance of Christ and that we have achieved financial freedom like Peter.

I will not scare the members with the cliche sermon..."give it to God, oh you cheapskate, you owe God, give it to the church....if not ....there will be army of grasshoppers coming like flood eating your harvests....and God will take away his fences of protection....." ('Cause, we need a bigger and prestigious church, and I need to buy a new BMW....). Well, in Indonesia we have a group of people who like to ask for protection money, they are called 'preman'. And if we don't give them, something will happen to our property. If you think that this is caused by them...well...you know.... so, please don't portray God just like another preman.

No..and no. There's no tithing. No point you do tithing, because you are scared of God and church, yet you abandon your parents and never give them allowance. You feel so righteous and religious because you give money to church's fund but you close eyes to your own parents?? Ho ho ho....

If you are really blessed and want to give 90%, be it, please do so, give to Him! ...it's between you and God...

...i will continue later

The Ca'my Language

My little one has his own unique language, that reminds me of Na'vi language of Avatar. Born into English-Indonesian speaking parents, he struggles to introduce his vocabularies, such as:

E-fe-ten = elephant = gajah

Ko-non = Carry me = Gendong

Do-Kok = Frog = Kodok

Vi-ti = Television = teve

Ah-me = Aeroplane = pesawat terbang

No-no = Forbidden ..well no prize for this :)

Nya-yen = Lion = Singa

Woff = Love = cinta

Ta-fa-fay = Butterfly =Kupu2

Potato in the dry land

Oh..I am confidence that my God will supply me with all I need according to His riches.

The Joy of Fatherhood

I have been following one pastor's twitter. I emphatized with his struggle as he has an international pop star wife who lives in US with their son. That leaves him with limited time with his 4 years old son. He would share in his twitter his joy of fatherhood when he has that limited time to spend with his son, such as sending him to music school in LA or just carrying him asleep.

I think I am very blessed then, as I don't have to part with my little one. I could carry him to sleep, as I watched X-Men last night, I can be irritated as he would bug me as I type this, and many other little things :)

It’s Christmas Day

Saya tidak tahu apakah renungan berikut ini bisa jadi renungan Natal
atau tidak. Yang jelas, dimulai ketika saya mendengar sebuah lagu
‘It’s Christmas Day’ yang dinyanyikan oleh Mandisa dan Michael W
Smith. Saya terpesona mendengar lantunan merdu lagu itu.

Nah, saya tahu siapa Michael W Smith, tapi saya tidak tahu itu
Mandisa. Jadi saya meng-google nama itu dan menemukan keterangan
mengenai penyanyi itu di wikipedia,
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mandisa.

Ternyata dia adalah salah seorang finalis American Idol 2006,
hmmm….namun tiba-tiba ada sesuatu yang menarik perhatian saya. Di situ
diceritakan bahwa salah satu juri, Simon Cowell ternyata melecehkannya
karena penampilan fisiknya. Simon Cowell mengeluarkan beberapa
komentar tentang berat badannya sewaktu audisi. Waktu pertama kali
melihat Mandisa, Simon dengan sinis menyindir bahwa sekarang kita
memerlukan panggung yang lebih besar.

Saat Mandisa menemui para juri sesaat sebelum sesi final untuk 24
semi-finalis, dia berkata pada Simon, “Apa yang saya mau katakan
padamu, ya, bahwa engkau menyakiti saya, dan saya menangis saat itu,
dan benar-benar sakit, ya itu benar-benar menyakitkan. Tapi saya ingin
kamu tahu, kalau saya telah mengampuni kamu dan bahwa kamu tidak
memerlukan seseorang untuk minta maaf, untuk mengampuni orang lain.
Saya temukan, bahwa kalau Yesus rela mati supaya semua salahku dapat
diampuni, tentulah saya dapat memberikan kasih karunia ini juga kepada
engkau..”

Mandisa kemudian memenangkan beberapa Grammy dan Dove award dan
menelurkan beberapa album seperti It’s Christmas, Christmas Joy dan
True Beauty dan beberapa singles seperti God Speaking, Voice of a
Savior, dan lain lain.

Pagi ini saya bertemu dengan seorang kawan lama. Dia adalah seorang
mantan CEO salah satu perusahaan asuransi terbesar di Afrika Selatan,
yang kemudian di puncak karirnya memutuskan untuk datang ke Asia
Tenggara dan menjadi misionaris.

Sambil nongkrong di warung kopi, kami berbincang-bincang dan saling
berbagi pergumulan kami masing-masing. Saat saya berbicara tentang
‘kemalangan’ dan ‘ketidak-adilan’ yang baru saya alami di kantor, dia
tiba-tiba dengan semangat bercerita tentang satu kisah dari Afrika
Selatan.

Ketika pemerintahan apartheid di Afrika Selatan baru berakhir, Nelson
Mandela mengeluarkan suatu keputusan, bahwa siapapun yang dulu
melakukan kejahatan, asalkan mau mengaku di pengadilan maka akan
diputus-bebas oleh pengadilan. Nah, seperti yang Anda tahu, Afrika
Selatan adalah tanah berdarah, di mana banyak terjadi peperangan sipil
antara kulit hitam dan kulit putih. Kalau Mandela tidak mengeluarkan
keputusan itu, dapat dibayangkan berapa banyak orang yang harus masuk
penjara dan penjara akan penuh sampai 20-30 tahun ke depan.

Adalah seorang polisi bernama van de Broek mengaku bagaimana dia
menangkap seorang anak muda kulit hitam, memukuli dan menyiksanya,
sebelum kemudian dia membunuhnya. Kemudian karena mereka hendak
berpesta, mereka juga mem-‘barbeque’ anak itu. Delapan tahun kemudian
van de Broek kembali ke rumah anak itu dan menangkap bapaknya,
kemudian di depan istrinya, ibu si anak, Broek mengikat bapak tersebut
dan membakarnya hidup-hidup.

Desmond Tutu, pemenang Nobel perdamaian, mengepalai acara ‘hearing’
tersebut. Dia bertanya kepada wanita yang merupakan ibu si anak itu,
“Apa yang Anda mau dari dia?”

Ruang pengadilan itu menjadi senyap.

Wanita itu minta tiga hal. Yang pertama dia minta supaya van de Broek,
membawanya ke tempat di mana mereka dibakar dan mengumpulkan abu
mereka, supaya mereka bisa dikebumikan secara layak, dan dia ingin
Broek menghadiri acara pemakaman itu. Sang polisi itu mengangguk
setuju.

Lalu dia melanjutkan, “Tuan van de Broek telah mengambil keluarga saya
dari dia, padahal saya masih memiliki banyak kasih untuk dibagikan.
Sebulan dua kali, saya minta dia datang ke ghetto saya dan
menghabiskan sehari bersama saya, supaya saya bisa menjadi ibunya. Dan
saya ingin agar Tuan van de Broek tahu, kalau dia telah diampuni oleh
Tuhan dan bahwa saya telah mengampuni dia juga. Dan saya minta untuk
memeluk dia sekarang, agar dia tahu kalau pengampuan ini nyata….”

Spontan, orang-orang menyanyi lagu Amazing Grace di ruang pengadilan
itu, saat wanita tua itu melangkah ke depan. Tetapi Broek tidak dapat
mendengar lagu itu, dia jatuh pingsan dalam kekagetannya.

Allah juga melangkah ke dalam dunia ini waktu hari Natal. Untuk
memeluk dunia yang gelap dalam pengampunan. Dia datang sebagai bayi
kecil, agar dunia dapat melihat bahwa pengampunan itu nyata…

Feng Shui

I just had an interesting accidental discussion with some of my colleagues. They were discussing my "bad luck". And the cause is clear to them. It's the feng shui.

They told me, as we just moved to a new place, and my new seat is backing the glass window, that's is the symbol of hollowness and some more I am sitting with the light that comes through the window on my rear.

I smile politely, I don't want to argue. Maybe they mean well.

But as for me, I know that it is in God's hand my destiny is. I know that for me personally the drought has attacked, and the land I stand is dry. But I will put my seeds of potato into the soil, what may dry it seem.

This year is gonna be my harvest year filled with God's blessings!

The Christmas I Want

Sepanjang jalan Orchard di Singapura sudah dihiasi lagi dengan megah dan
gemerlap menyambut hari Natal ini. Orang-orang lalu lalang dengan gembira, di
tengah banyak bangunan mall-mall yang baru dan mewah.

Singapura bukan negara Kristen tentunya, dan orang Kristen tentu cuma minoritas.
Tetapi musim Natal disambut dengan gembira oleh banyak orang. Pertama-tama
karena musim liburan. Pada umumnya beban kerja di kantor menurun, holiday-mood,
lah. Orang banyak mengambil cuti, kesibukan menurun, dan siapa tidak suka
melihat hiasan-hiasan Natal yang gemerlap, Sinterklas yang lucu dan pohon Natal
yang indah. Natal, juga mendekati akhir tahun, dan kebanyakan karyawan
menantikan bonus akhir tahun mereka. Dan tentu saja, selalu ada hal yang menarik
hati yang disediakan untuk kita semua. Diskon Natal untuk Christmas fashion
terbaru, menu khusus hari Natal yang menggoda lidah, dan berbagai sale dan
diskon bertebaran.

Jadi siapa yang tidak suka hari Natal?

Benar, memang bagi banyak orang yang berbeban berat, suasana di atas tidak
banyak menolong. Karyawan yang baru dipecat, sulit untuk menghamburkan uang
untuk Christmas shopping. Orang-orang yang sakit, sulit melihat harapan di
tengah mall-mall mewah bertaburan luxury goods.

Namun suasana Natal yang gemerlap itu tentu nyaman untuk sekedar `take a break'
setelah sepanjang tahun penat membanting tulang, bagi banyak orang.

Tapi, kan, Anda mungkin menyanggah, Natal bukan soal itu, ada pesan Natal yang
sesungguhnya karena kedatangan seorang bayi di palungan 2000 tahun yang lalu…

Saya bertanya-tanya, kalau misalnya Anda sedang terjerat dan terjepit dalam
masalah yang sangat berat, lalu mendengar pesan Natal, yang itu-itu lagi, yang
sudah Anda dengar mungkin puluhan kali, akankah pesan Natal itu membawa arti
bagi Saudara?

Kita tahu, sepertinya tidak ada yang mengena di hati kita (lagi), tinggallah
Natal itu soal gemerlap hiasan lampu Natal dan Sinterklas yang lucu…

Teringatlah saya, kejadian 2000 tahun yang lalu itu, adakah hari itu benar-benar
membawa arti dan mengubah hidup banyak orang?

Ya, bagi para gembala, mereka bersuka cita dan membawa berita kesukaan besar
kepada banyak orang. Cerita tentang gembala bertemu bala tentara malaikat tentu
cepat menyebar di kota kecil itu. Tapi, tidak banyak orang "menerima" berita
itu, Alkitab cuma mencatat mereka heran. Titik. Lagipula, kalau semua orang
sekota itu dan daerah itu bertobat, 30 tahun kemudian tentu pelayanan Tuhan
Yesus akan lebih mudah.

Ya, bagi Simeon dan Hana, yang membawa berita sukacita itu di Bait Allah, saat
Yesus berumur 8 hari. Kedua orang ini tentu tidak berbicara bahasa sandi saat
itu, kesaksian mereka nyata, dan Hana adalah seorang nabi yang tinggal di dalam
Bait Allah itu sendiri. Jadi mengapa cuma dua orang di dalam Bait Allah itu yang
melihat `makna' itu dan tidak para ahli Farisi, imam-imam, ahli Taurat, dan
segala macam orang yang datang ke Bait Allah? Kalau mereka menerima Yesus pada
saat itu, tentunya mereka tidak akan mati-matian menentang Yesus, 33 tahun
kemudian…

Ya, bagi orang Majus yang mengarungi jarak yang jauh dan mempersembahkan
barang-barang mereka yang paling berharga. Tetapi tidak bagi penduduk sekitar,
yang bisa dengan mudah datang dengan berjalan kaki.

Mengapa?

Kita tahu bahwa Allah mengasihi kita, kita tahu bahwa Bayi yang datang 2000
tahun yang lalu itu adalah suatu perkara yang besar. Tetapi kenapa berita itu
sekarang tidak lagi mengena di hati kita?

Karena walau kita tahu bahwa Allah mengasihi kita, kita punya kemauan dan
keinginan akan `apa yang kita mau' dari perwujudan kasih itu. Dan apa yang kita
mau, mungkin berbeda dengan bagaimana Allah menyatakan kasihNya...

Orang-orang Yahudi menantikan datangnya Mesias selama beratus-ratus tahun, dan
dalam penindasan dan penghinaan yang berat oleh orang Romawi, tidakkah yang
mereka nantikan seorang Mesias yang perkasa, yang datang dengan Pedang dan Api
yang menyala-nyala, dan memulihkan Kerajaan Israel pada masa itu?

Bagi para orang Farisi dan ahli Taurat, tidakkah mereka berharap, bahwa Mesias
itu akan datang sebagai Imam yang megah, dalam kelebatan efod sorgawi,
diselubungi awan kemuliaan yang menggentarkan semua orang, yang kemudian akan
kemudian mengangkat para imam dan orang Farisi itu sebagai orang-orang penting
untuk menghakimi umat Allah?

Tetapi Bayi itu datang dalam keadaan sederhana, lahir di palungan. Dia menaiki
keledai saat memasuki Kota Raja, Yerusalem. Dia mengajar dan mengecam
kemunafikan para ahli Taurat dan mengajak umat Allah datang langsung kepada Bapa
mereka, dan dengan demikian membuat posisi para imam "terancam". Dia duduk
dengan anak-anak. Dia bercakap-cakap dalam bahasa Aram (ibaratnya Jowo ngoko)
dan bukan bahasa terpelajar Yunani (ibaratnya bahasa Inggris). Dan…ya ampun…dia
bergaul dengan pelacur, dia makan semeja dengan para koruptor…

Jam menunjukkan lewat tengah malam. Hening dan sepi. Lagu Natal melantun sayup
memecah keheningan. Puluhan Natal berlalu sudah.

Saya berdoa, supaya Natal ini, saya dapat melihat kasih Allah sebagaimana kasih
itu yang sejati. Seperti yang hati Allah pesankan. Bukan seperti apa yang saya
mau. Supaya saya tidak kehilangan pesan Natal itu seperti orang-orang Israel
menantikan Mesias dengan pedang, atau seperti para ahli Taurat yang kecewa
melihat kesederhanaan Kristus.

Saya ingin saya dapat melihat dan merasakan kasih itu, bagaimanapun Allah
menyatakan dan mewujudkannya dalam hidup saya.

Mungkin tak seperti yang saya mau. Mungkin tak seperti yang saya harapkan.
Mungkin tak seperti impian liar masa muda saya. Mungkin tak seperti yang akal
praktis saya paksakan. Mungkin tidak seperti yang saya pernah bahkan dapat
bayangkan.

Saya berdoa, agar saya dapat percaya. Dan melihat. Dan mengecap. Kasih Natal itu
yang sejati.

The seeds of potato

I was on my way to work in the train

Still dangling in my mind what I wrote in the blog the night before

As I sat, .. suddenly..

.. yes just suddenly...

I put my seeds of potato into the dry land

And I had a moment of strange warm feeling

Short...a glimpse...but enough to bring the joy and faith

I know nothing changes

I do not need to leap into the dark

But I have changed my mind like Jacob

And one day this shall serve as a testimony

that God has always prepared something better in advance

I feel peace....

..so it comes

so it comes...

you know it, that it's coming

you have been preparing and telling yourself everyday

still you feel a bit tingling

so it comes...

you know that the El Nino is coming

and the drought is felt

I just have to put my seeds of potatoes

against the nature against all hopes

...can I?

when I feel the heat?

when I am burn?

when I see no water?

Faith Like Potatoes

Malam itu saya iseng jalan ke DVD rental shop langganan kami. Tadinya saya ingin pinjem Transformer, tapi ngga ada. Lalu melihat ada Harry Potters, tapi istri saya ngga setuju. Lihat-lihat lagi...tiba-tiba saya melihat ada satu DVD dengan judul yang aneh 'Faith like Potatoes'. Hmm..kelihatannya seperti agak boring, tapi ngga apalah, saya pikir.

Film itu ternyata tidak boring sama sekali, bahkan mengubahkan hidup saya. Film yang diangkat dari kisah nyata, ini berkisah tentang perjalanan Angus Buchan (http://www.shalomtrust.co.za/), seorang petani dari Afrika Selatan.

Luar biasa...

Saya bisa menulis panjang dan panjang, dari film tersebut. Tetapi untuk kali ini, biarlah sedikit saja dulu, yang saya mau tulis.

Seorang petani yang pemarah. Yang merasa beban seluruh dunia sedang ditanggungnya. Baru saja dia dipaksa keluar dari tanah pertanian-nya di Zambia karena perang, dan dengan berbekal sedikit uang, dia mencari kehidupan di Kwa Zulu, Afrika Selatan. Tak ada rumah, hanya karavan butut. Tak ada listrik dan air. Traktor yang dimilikinya dirusak oleh pegawainya. Tiap minggu, ada saja berita di mana petani kulit putih terbunuh. Istrinya sedang hamil 6 bulan, dan 3 anak lainnya masih kecil-kecil.

Jadi bagaimana?

Siang itu, setelah pertengkaran yang panjang soal dasi dengan istrinya, akhirnya dia mau juga duduk di gereja. Dan hari itu menjadi sejarah titik balik dalam hidupnya, ketika ia menyerahkan hidupnya kepada Kristus.

Siang itu juga, damai sejahtera Allah mengubah hidupnya.

Siang itu juga, dia mulai mengabarkan injil kepada orang-orang yang ditemuinya, kepada para pegawai-pegawainya.

Hidup tidak menjadi langsung mudah setelah hari konversi itu. Ladangnya terbakar, dan Angus tahu kalau api sampai melalap ke ladang sebelahnya, dia bisa diseret ke pengadilan. Di tengah keputusasaan-nya, dia mengajak mandornya, Simeon Bhengu untuk berdoa meminta hujan. Simeon cuma berkata dengan bingung bahwa sekarang bukan musim hujan. Jadilah Angus berdoa sendiri.

Satu jam kemudian.

Hujan lebat itu turun dan api itu padam.

Iman Angus pun tumbuh dari hari ke hari. Ladang jagungnya menjadi gereja hijau-nya, tempat dia bercakap-cakap dengan Allah...

Blood Pressure Chart

from http://www.vaughns-1-pagers.com/medicine/blood-pressure.htm

Melukis Kasih Karunia

Saya belajar melukis. Ya, ngga tahu apakah terlalu telat untuk orang seusia saya? Waktu kecil saya suka menggambar dan mencorat-coret. Entah berapa kali saya dimarahi papa karena menggambari dinding rumah, dan karena lama tidak dicat ulang, corat-coret itu terdampar di sana untuk waktu yang cukup lama. Waktu tambah besar, saya mengerti kalau menggambar itu harus di atas kertas, dan mama saya suka memuji kalau gambar saya bagus.

Saya berhenti melukis waktu kelas 2 SMA kalau tidak salah. Yang saya ingat, guru seni rupa saya mengacung-acungkan lukisan saya di depan kelas dan mengejek-ejeknya serta mempermalukan saya di depan murid-murid.

Sejak itu saya selalu berpikir kalau saya tidak bisa melukis. Saya tidak punya bakat.

Dan waktu pun berlalu.

Sebulan yang lalu saya iseng menemukan kursus melukis di sebuah website. Benar-benar kebetulan, karena saya menemukan link-nya di Google Ads Word di dalam Gmail. Lebih kebetulan lagi, tidak lama setelah itu saya ketemu makan siang dengan kawan saya, seorang Professor di Singapore Management University, setelah lama sekali tak bersua. Ngobrol-ngobrol kanan kiri atas bawah, saya tiba-tiba iseng menyebutkan soal kursus melukis. Singkat cerita dia juga tertarik, dan jadilah kita berdua mendaftar untuk ikut kelas permulaan. It’s acrylic on canvas. Kalau tidak ada temannya, mungkin saya tidak berani mendaftar.

Nah, tulisan ini bukan artikel tentang teknik melukis, ya. Saya cuma tertarik dan terperanjat ketika instruktur kami (seorang seniman impressionist) mengatakan, “Melukis itu tergantung dari bagaimana kamu melihat dan bukan dari keahlian tangan…yang penting itu harus melihat dengan benar, karena kalau kamu melihat dengan benar, niscaya tangan akan mengikuti…”

Saya jadi melihat analoginya dalam hidup. Kalau kita melihat dengan benar, maka tangan kita akan melukis dengan baik pula. Kalau apa yang kita percayai benar, maka hidup kita akan benar pula. If we’re believing right, then we will live right.

Kalau saja kita tahu, melihat dan mengecap betapa dahsyat dan tak berkesudahan dan tanpa pamrih, kasih karunia Tuhan, hidup kita akan diliputi dengan kekuatan ajaib untuk hidup benar. Mana yang akan membuat kita hidup benar? Apakah aturan-aturan agamawi dan hukum-hukum serta ketakutan akan api neraka? Ataukah kelimpahan kasih karunia, pengampunan tak berkesudahan, kebaikan tanpa pamrih yang akan mendorong kita hidup benar?

Penghakiman dan hukum penuh dengan tuduhan dan daftar kesalahan. Seperti guru seni rupa saya di atas, ketika dia mengacung-acungkan “keburukan” lukisan saya. Demikian juga, dalam hidup, selalu ada oknum yang tak hentinya menuduh kita, mendakwa kita, mencap kita “tidak layak” dan mengacung-acungkannya di depan pikiran kita.
Tapi, lihatlah.

Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, kata surat Roma 8:1. Ngga ada lagi penghukuman, kita udah bebas. Kita hidup dalam kasih karunia. Kita hidup karena kita melihat dan mengalami dan hidup di dalam Roh dan berbuah. Ngga ada hukum yang bisa menentang itu, kata Galatia 5: 23.

Kalau kamu melihat dengan benar, tanganmu akan mengikuti…..

Kalau kita dapat melihat dan merasakan dan mengalami betapa besar kasih karunia Allah, maka kaki dan tangan kita akan mengikuti….

*****
Singapura, Oktober 2009
Dedicated to my dearest wife, RP.
Thanks too to GT (SMU) & CK (myartspace).

God, Prosperity and Reality

I had an interesting encounter recently, that more or less giving me some answer to a neverending question I have, in regard to mega church, prosperity theology and reality.

I attend a few mega churches and as commonly they are, they encourage the building of wealth as God's will. If you ask me, I think they are men of God (at least those that I attend or know), they are God's chosen servant notwithstanding the fact that it does not mean that ALL their teaching is correct. Neither does it mean, that all they say, behave, or their church policy is all accurate. I think they all are possible making mistake both in their teaching and thought.

Sounds like contradicting? Well, I think we all now see the blur reflection on the mirror, till the day we'll see God face to face. That day, we'll understand him fully, not as now.

Now, coming back to this prosperity problem, I always have problems. Some are just logical dilemmas. For example:

• If you teach that God wants the best property for us, i.e finding house for us. Mind you, the preacher spesifically said, the best in town for us. This lead to a mathematical problem, because the best is only one, and there are more than one Christian in town
• Mathematically, you can't have all members to be rich persons. And economically, some professions can't compete with others. For example, being a teacher or a maid, would make it incomparable to compete with a Wall Street analyst or bankers. So, how would a member who coincidentally is a taxi driver feel about the teaching?
• Case studies in pulpit are always about the 'absolute' rich people. The preacher would proudly announce how he knows this and that rich Indonesian businessmen, of the replica house like White house, etc. I understand marketing and packaging. The moment you share a story about a maid. that she feels so financially blessed, because today she could earn additional $10, would just really piss off most the attendees.
• Biblically, they love to quote all examples of rich people and forgetting the case that Jesus himself, Paul, etc were not typical Warren Buffet of the day.
• Just take a quick surveys..most of the richest in town or country, they are not Christian. Forbes would agree with me.

I had a long day and in the middle of tense anxiety. Very tense. And very worried. That night I took a cab. I chatted with the taxi driver, whose name and race is not really typical in Singapore. 80% of my experience listening to taxi driver is that they always complain and bicker about their job and the hard life they go through. So now I started with this topic.

He shared with me, that he drives cab after being retrenched from his company after the Asian Financial Crisis. He shared how his skill is useless, because he doesn't have paper. I shared with him too, that's life in Singapore is tough, bla bla bla..that I might think to go back to my homeland, bla bla bla, at least I could start a business, bla bla. He agreed with me, that starting a business in Singapore is tough.

So suddenly I saw that piece of cross made of paper hanging in front. Casually I asked if he goes to church. He replied yes, and yeah...he goes to one of the biggest mega church in town, which I attend too. So, we chatted more openly.

So he started to share, how intially he was reluctant to drive after being retrenched, till he surrendered to God, and how God has miraculously been taking care of him. He doesn't drive every Sunday, that is a loss of $480 of taxi rental, yet he is still able to give tithing in between $400-450 per month. One day his son decided that he wanted to go to university, he did not have any money, he trusted God. Thereafter the problem was solved, as his son got a loan from the bank. He shared with me the little things God help him daily, like the fact that he got me as passenger, as it is the same way he was going home.

He was full of energy of excitement when he shared this. "Just rest...don't need to do anything to be blessed by God.." shared he enthusiastically. "God will provide..." Of course, what he meant not just sleeping at home. "And for you, if you want to be here, you don't worry, 'cause God will provide..."

I asked a rethorical question if he felt bitter because he drives taxi now, as oppose he used to work in office. The answer is clear of course...he sees this as his life calling....

The taxi reached my place. He smiled at me, when I paid. Inside the dark cab, I had a strange sight, perhaps just my eyes. I saw as if his face was celestially glowing in the dark.

I kept on thinking about it that night and talked about it with my wife. I never hear in those mega churches, how they would be proud of God's way to bless the realtively-not-rich people financially. It is awkward if they share in their spectacular pulpit, stories about taxi driver or maid or teacher in the context of prosperity theology. Because their concept about prosperity and/or financial is absolute. A dollar is significantly different with a million dollars. Or even they do not really think it is absolute, they cannot share the story of the little ones.

I somehow see from different perspective from now on. I see how God's invisible hand work miraculously in interpreting the pulpit's message to all His little lambs. God has His way, he knows what's happening and know what to do. The little ones, by God's grace, will see the light himself, and find the ways as God opens them.

I believe wholeheartedly that God blesses us in every way as He pleases. That includes money. But the metrics for that does not follow man's principle. God knows what is best for us. It might be a CEO post in Lehman or any Wall Street, it might be a five digits salary in USD, it could be that he blesses us while we drive taxi, yet He will make us lifted.

I know, were I be the one became taxi driver, I would feel bitter to God and would see it as a failure. And maybe the mega church pulpit would think the same too. But really, God cannot be packaged into our own formula.

I would think that God was a failure when Jacob had to migrate to Egypt to escape the famine. I mean...He is Almighty...and if I were the prosperity teacher then, I would teach that, in Jacob's land, there should be miracle, that their crops will yield harvest, even though the lands next to them were all destroyed. But He is not. The Bible said, that that was God's way. He prepared Joseph long way back to prepare this sophisticated salvage mission. I might think otherwise, that God should just make some miracle and open the heaven's gate, what is so difficult?

But that's not His way. And Jacob, old age, before Pharaoh said, "The years of my sojourning are 130—a short and hard life and not nearly as long as my ancestors were given."

Jacob, the man who cheated his brother in the chase of prosperity finally found the real prosperity.

always be nice

i have learned some lessons throughout the recent titanic episode. it's quite sad perhaps, that i think the lesson is a basic one.

always be nice to everyone.
you never know, who will stretch their hands to reach you when the titanic starts to sink. one touched my hand and told me 'relax, God is watching us' despite i had numerous fights with the person. the other one said 'don't let them look down on you, you have to know that you are good..' despite i ever had hours on the phone quarelling. one just came into my room said nothing..but 'how are you' with the face expressing deep sympathy. one sent sms-es from outside, despite we were not that close when we were on the same ship, 'things happen for a reason, keep faith in god'. the funny thing, i don't even know what religion those people are who mentioned god, yet it was just so nice.

use brain and be rationale all the time (this one i got it from my seefoo).
the persons that i have tried to be over-nice, were the ones that then put the darts on my back. the fact that i was hurt, because perhaps i was not sincere then, i was nice to them to get their support during my reign time. lesson, don't need to overdo it...

so, in future, just be nice to everyone in sincerity.

There's a reason

There's a reason for the life given by the Son now there's a second chance for me
Oh lamb of God I am standing in the light
Pray all the world will see
May all I do glorify your name
That's the reason you made me...

There's a reason for everything
Some we may know, most we don't know
Some we don't need to know, some we really need to know
..to hold and uphold it...

...he also needs to....

in the middle of situation on which i felt nervous, i got this word of encouragement.

"...he is only a man, and like you and me...he also needs to shit and goes to the toilet...."

aha...so wise my godfather is :)

Every Single Step

" a Mont Blanc is conqured not by 'going to the top' but by setting up the next base, every single step" (Jean-Paul Sablerolle, 2009)

a happy family

guess the picture says it all...

waktu

"....kecepatan waktu melebihi kilat, namun lambatnya mengalahkan kelambatan seekor keong ,,," (Siang Bok Khiam Episode 21, Kho Ping Hoo)

Everybody is normal

Everybody is normal until you get to know them, said Ferry Irawan Tantono. I suddenly remember what he said as I was looking at the rushing people walking on the street.

Duka Ketidakpastian

Saya baru saja membaca sebuah artikel yang ditulis Daniel Gilbert, seorang Profesor Psikologi dari Harvard University, judulnya “The unbearable angst of uncertainty”.  Di situ dia menulis tentang sebuah eksperimen yang dilakukan peneliti dari Maastricht University di Belanda yang melakukan penelitian pada sekelompok orang dengan memberikan 20 kejutan listrik. Kepada satu kelompok, para peneliti memberitahukan bahwa akan ada 17 kejutan ringan dan 3 kejutan berat, sedangkan kelompok yang lain hanya tahu bahwa mereka akan menerima semua kejutan berat. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan bahwa kelompok yang justru tahu bahwa mereka cuma menerima 3 kejutan berat, ternyata lebih takut dan kuatir. Jantung mereka berdetak cepat dan mereka berkeringat dingin.

 

Ini karena orang cenderung lebih stress kala mereka mengetahui kalau sesuatu yang buruk mungkin terjadi, daripada mengetahui sesuatu yang buruk akan terjadi. Kebanyakan orang ternyata, kalau mereka tahu sesuatu yang buruk akan terjadi, walau pada awalnya mereka akan terpukul, setelah beberapa saat mereka akan mulai menerima kenyataan dan bersiap untuk memperoleh yang terbaik dari keadaan yang terburuk.

 

Ketidakpastian itu adalah beban yang menusuk. Saya jadi ingat satu cerita lagi. Tentang seorang kriminal di Amerika yang divonis hukuman mati. Setelah mencoba pelbagai usaha untuk naik banding, vonisnya tidak berubah. Akan tetapi pada hari H-nya, hukumannya ditunda. Penundaan ini bukan hanya sekali, tetapi berkali-kali. Entah mengapa, mungkin karena ada kesalahan administrasi. Akhirnya pada hari yang dinanti-nantikan, setelah dengan pasrah, si pesakitan siap menerima nasib...eh....ternyata dibatalkan lagi! Akhirnya saking kesalnya dia malah balik menuntut pemerintah AS, karena dianggap lalai dan menunda-nunda hukuman matinya.

 

Salah satu duri ketidakpastian adalah karena kita tidak tahu apa yang mesti kita lakukan. Saya ingat, ketika saya memulai bisnis saya. Ternyata tidak berhasil baik. Saya sempat stress. Bukan semata karena usaha saya yang tidak berhasil, tapi karena saya tergantung dalam dilema, dan terjebak dalam lubang kebingungan. Mestikah saya terus bertahan dan menghabiskan uang tabungan saya? Mestikah saya berhenti saja dan kembali jadi karyawan? Kedua-dua langkah mengandung resiko. Jadi berbulan-bulan saya stress karena ketidakpastian, tidak pasti saya akan ke mana, atau apa yang akan terjadi pada saya.

 

Ketidakpastian, tentu adalah tema sehar-hari sekarang. Dengan krisis ekonomi global ini, tidak jelas apa yang akan terjadi pada pasar saham besok. Mendengar berita PHK di negara-negara paling makmur sekalipun, tidak pasti berapa lama kita bisa duduk di bangku kantor. Mendengar berita flu ini-flu itu, tidak jelas kapan epideminya akan meledak, atau entah virus baru apa lagi besok datang.

 

Ketidakpastian sekarang bukan hanya melanda orang miskin, tetapi juga orang kaya. Bukan hanya orang tidak berpendidikan, tetapi juga orang-orang pintar. Orang lemah atau berkuasa.

 

Yesus mengerti. Dunia tidak dapat menyelesaikan persoalan ketidakpastian ini. Selama kita menaruh harap dan rasa aman kita pada sistem dunia, kita tidak akan pernah merasa damai. Itulah sebabnya Dia bersabda, “Damai sejahtera Kutinggalkan bagimu. Damai sejahtera-Ku Kuberikan kepadamu, dan apa yang Kuberikan tidak seperti yang diberikan oleh dunia kepadamu. Janganlah gelisah dan gentar hatimu.”

 

Mungkin tidak ada jawaban instan akan masalah ketidakpastian kita, begitu kita selesai mengucapkan ‘Amin’ dalam doa kita. Namun satu hal pasti, Tuhan bilang, Dia akan berikan kita damai sejahtera yang bukan dari dunia ini. Yang tidak dimengerti dunia ini. Yang ‘kan berikan kekuatan kepada kita untuk terus melangkah.

 

Kembali pada kisah di atas tentang pengalaman saya. Ya, Tuhan menolong saya. Dan bulan-bulan yang saya habiskan dalam kekuatiran dan stress, sebetulnya sia-sia saja.

Kampung Kenangan Mei

"Tuhan menciptakan manusia itu dalam kerapuhannya sehingga dapat dilukai, dan bangsa kita telah lama hidup dengan sekujur luka. Namun Tuhan juga menganugerahkan kekuatan untuk kita mengampuni, seperti jarum emas dengan benang bajanya menjahit teguh segala luka kebencian, amarah dan kesalahpahaman. Biarlah kenangan ini kan diingat tidak lagi dalam luka, namun dalam cinta dan pengampunan abadi."